Balance

Balance

How to find it, is the question I've been thinking about lately.  The past year has brought a lot of changes in my life, from starting this blog to going back to work after being a full-time stay-at-home mom for seven years.  I'm so grateful that I have been able to be home with my kids, but I'm also thankful that I've been able to start working more and to contribute financially to my family.  I can do 90% of my job from home, which is a blessing.  Now that summer is here and the kids are home, though, I'm trying to figure out how to work from home and be a mom too.  I know that many of you are work-at-home moms too.  If you have any tips, on making this situation work, I'm all ears.

The coming year is going to bring more change as all three of my girls will be switching from our neighborhood public school to a private school across town in the fall.  While we have loved the public school, our school district is in a severe budget crisis.  This means large class sizes with no aides and things keep getting cut.

 

I think the new school will be great for them, but change can be tough (especially for one of my children).  I'm hoping the transition isn't too difficult for us.  With the added tuition expense, I think I might try to pick up some more work.

 

Please excuse my popping in and out of the blog world this summer as I try to figure this all out.  When I have something to share, I'll be here and I hope to continue to visit your blogs to see what you've been up to.  I have so much admiration for you moms out there who can do it all and you make it look effortless!

 

In other news, we had a great weekend in Aspen.  Here are a couple of my favorite pictures.

Happy 1st Blogiversary!

It's hard to believe that I started this little hobby a year ago. I don't know what I expected when I started Saved by Suzy.

Did I expect that I would make friends from all around the country? 

Did I know that I would end up redecorating my whole house?

Did I expect that almost three hundred people would tune in to see what I had to share?

Did I know that I would become a garage sale and thrift store addict?

I never expected any of this, but I'm so happy I'm here!!!  More importantly, I'm glad you're here.  If wasn't for all of the sweet, funny, kind, and heartfelt comments, I probably would have thrown in the towel months ago. 

In an effort to better connect with everyone, I want to start publishing more things on my Saved by Suzy Facebook page.  If I have a little comment to share or maybe an article or blog post that I think you might like, I'll be putting these things on Facebook. 

You can find me on Facebook here.

Thanks for sticking around!

A Note on Commenting

I do some of my best thinking while running (hmmm, maybe I should run more often?).  This morning while running, I was thinking about blogging and comments.

Source: etsy.com via Amy on Pinterest

When bloggers post things that make me feel an emotion, I generally comment.  It's easy to comment when somebody is sharing good news, such as opening a shop (Cassie), embarking on a new adventure (Holly), earning a degree (Jessamie), or completing a room or piece of furniture that is inspiring.  I am genuinely happy to see people reach their goals, succeed or try new things.

It's more difficult to know what to say when a blogger shares something sad, such as illness, death. or job loss.  I usually post something like "I'm so sorry," "Thinking of you," or "Sending prayers."  These always feel so trite and generic to me and I wish I had something more profound or meaningful to say, something that will truly share how I feel.

Sometimes I think it would be better to not post at all than to post something short and bland.  However, my thinking on this has changed.  I mentioned something to a fellow blogger and she replied that she would say a prayer for me.  This was not an earth shattering reply, but it made me feel like I could face whatever was coming and to have a more positive outlook. 

I guess the point of this post is that comments really DO matter and make a difference to a blogger.  Even if I don't know exactly what to say and the "right" way to say it, I think it's better to say something rather than nothing.

This post is definitely NOT meant to be a plea for more comments on my blog.  Just some random ramblings on how much I truly appreciate your comments and I know other bloggers feel the same way.  Happy Sunday!

How did I get here?

I promise this will be the last post reflecting back on 2011!  But, as I sit here in my living room looking around, this space is totally different than it was one year ago.  Last year at this time, my home was maybe a "Tuscan" style.  Paintings of the Tuscan countryside, lots of dark iron, olive branch metal wall decor, reddish-maroon and gold accents, fake plants...you get the idea.

Source: tuscan-home-101.com via Jennifer on Pinterest

Source: savvyseasons.com via Theresa on Pinterest

These are not my home, but similar in style.  In fact, both of these rooms are much prettier than mine was.

I don't have any pictures of my home decorated like this because I didn't really care about my home or how it looked.  I just bought whatever decor was readily available.  I thought we would only live in this house and this area for a few years.  This was not our "forever" house, so why should I waste time, money, and effort on decorating it?

In February 2011, we had our five-year anniversary of living in this home.  Around the same time, I stumbled upon some design and decorating blogs and was hooked.  I started to realize that my home is a VERY important spot.  It is the place where my family is together and should be a place that is comfortable and relects us.  In other words, it should be a place where we enjoy spending time and not be treated as a mere stop-on-the-road to something bigger and better.

I knew I wanted my home to be brighter and lighter.  So I made my first of many trips to the good old home improvement stores and picked up a can of turquoise spray paint.  I painted some dark brownish-black candlesticks that I had for years.  The transformation provided instant gratification.  What else could I spray paint?

Everything that was not "me," I either sold, donated, or repurposed.  I tried to get rid of a lot of clutter.  The tops of my kitchen cabinets were the resting place for all kinds of dusty old decor.  That all was removed.  I had a huge, dark Tuscan countryside painting over my piano in a fussy carved wood frame.  I brought that to a consignment store and replaced it with a gallery wall of images that represent our family.  I also picked up a huge lamp at Goodwill that I spray painted white to bring more light to this dark area.

Next, I started browsing fabric websites and fell in love with this fun print from Robert Allen.  It replaced an old, gold-tasseled, maroon and bronze valance.  I had never really sewed anything in my life, but I made this valance.  While it's not perfect, it's so much better than what was there.

While a new couch was not in the budget, I was able to buy more fun fabrics to add pops of color to our dingy old olive-colored sectional.

I actually purchased the pillow in front.

I was getting braver with my cans of spray paint and decided to move on from painting picture frames, candlesticks and lamps to larger pieces of furniture.  I also tried my hand at reupholstering these antique chairs that we had owned for years.

Around this time (May 2011), I decided to start my own blog.  I had received so much inspiration from other blogs, I wanted to be a part of the blog community.  If a non-creative, average mom like me could take on redecorating her house one DIY project at a time, anyone could do it!  Other bloggers were so supportive and I got more confident in the projects I tackled.  I hope that I motivated or inspired at least one reader along the way too.

Our biggest investment was ripping out disgusting old carpeting and having it replaced with wood.  I'm so happy we did this.  Three out of five family members have allergies and getting rid of the carpet has made such a difference.  Wood floors were also something my husband and I really wanted and we had the money saved for the project, so we went for it.  I would not advise anyone to go into debt decorating!

That dog loves to be in pictures!

As the year went by, I started to hunt for more "treasures" at thrift stores and garage sales and got addicted to making over furniture, which I then would put in my house or sell on Craigslist.  I got more confident and tackled some other sewing, painting, tiling, and wall papering projects.  I don't think I would have done any of this had I not stumbled into the blog world.  Blogs gave me inspiration as well as confidence to try new things.  There is no right or wrong way to decorate.  I learned to make a space special by using items I actually liked or that had meaning.

I think my blogging journey over the past 8 months has been very rewarding.  I've created a nice space for my family and I know that I can always change things if I want to.  I've realized that I can create a space I like on a budget and through DIY projects.  My home does not need to be a mirror image of the latest Pottery Barn catalog for me to be happy.  In addition, I think my daughters have also enjoyed painting, sanding, and whatever else they can get their hands on!

Blogging is a great exercise in reflection.  It forces me to sit down at my computer, and think and write about my life rather than just rushing through it trying to get everything done.

Thanks for sticking around for all of my self-reflection and ramblings!  I'm looking forward to what 2012 brings for all of us.